Tuesday 30 October 2007

Pruning Time.....

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Jesus Is the Vine—Followers Are Branches

1 "I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. 2 "Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes[1][Lit cleans; used to describe pruning] it so that it may bear more fruit. 3 "You are already clean[2][I.e. pruned like a branch] because of the word which I have spoken to you. 4 "Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of[3][Lit from ] itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me. 5 "I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. 6 "If anyone does not abide in Me, he is thrown away as a branch and dries up; and they gather them, and cast them into the fire and they are burned. 7 "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 "My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and so prove[4][Or become My disciples ] to be My disciples. 9 "Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. 10 "If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father's commandments and abide in His love. 11 "These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.

Disciples' Relation to Each Other

12 "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. 13 "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. 14 "You are My friends if you do what I command you. 15 "No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. 16 "You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. 17 "This I command you, that you love one another.

(John 15:1-17)



As I was talking with Hubby about the Ducks disbanding, I started to weep. And then, lo and behold, I started saying that I felt that God is stripping away lots of things from me. Almost like I am a tree, that is flourishing and is growing new branches that are going every which way. As a gardener, you cannot have a tree that has TONS of new branches and still expect lots of good quality fruit off of it.

"No matter which training method you choose, use summer pruning to train young trees and shorten the time to full fruit production. On mature trees, summer pruning involves mainly: 1) removing vigorous, upright shoots that are not needed to create permanent branches and 2) heading shoots to control tree height. Summer pruning is done in both spring and summer. When useful, bend and stake any shoots of young trees that you want to grow in a different direction during the spring and summer. Bending branches hastens branch development compared to removing or heading those in undesirable locations and waiting for a new branch to form.
If trees received appropriate summer training and pruning, far less dormant pruning is necessary. However, the absence of leaves provides a clear view of the framework of the tree, so thin or head any branches that were not adequately summer pruned.
Pruning Overgrown Trees
Many people have one or more large, neglected fruit trees in their yards. The far majority of fruit from these trees must be picked using ladders, and much of it is even higher. It is very difficult to prune, spray, or thin the fruit in these trees, and high branches often break due to the weight of the fruit. Diseases or borers often invade these trees, and you must assess whether it is worth bringing the tree height down or simply removing the tree and planting a new one. In general, where a large tree is desired it is best to use a shade tree rather than a fruiting tree unless you are able to manage a large fruit tree.
If you decide to work with the tree, there are three main ways to prune it: 1) maintain the tree height and make mostly thinning cuts, 2) reduce the tree height slowly over about a three-year period, or 3) drastically cut back all main branches but one. With more extreme methods where large branches must be cut, wait until February or March – even into the flowering period – in order to allow quicker healing and to reduce the chance of disease organisms entering large pruning wounds during winter rains. Do not paint wounds with anything except white paint. When heading cuts are necessary, if possible cut back to a lateral branch at least one-third the thickness of the branch being cut. Also, if pruning results in exposure of branches to prolonged periods of hot afternoon sun, paint them white with tree whitewash or with a 50:50 mixture of interior white latex paint and water.
1. Maintain the tree height and make mostly thinning cuts. This method assumes that the tree is structurally sound and not much taller than you are able to easily manage with an available ladder. If the tree has been neglected many branches will need to be removed, especially high in the tree. Thin out enough branches to allow sunlight to penetrate to lower wood, but don’t create such big gaps that main branches become subject to sunburn; paint them if necessary. Remove any branches growing beyond the height you are able to pick the fruit. By keeping the tree at this height, it will produce new, vigorous shoots – especially on the top of the tree. These must be removed each year, preferably through summer pruning.
2. Reduce the tree height slowly over about a three-year period. This approach can be successful with appropriate follow-up pruning, especially summer pruning. Determine how tall you would like the permanent structure of the tree to be, and reduce the height by one-third each year for three years until the final height is reached. Vigorous shoot growth is inevitable, so it is essential to remove or head many of these shoots once or twice in the summer to avoid shading lower fruiting wood. Also, thin out branches as needed to allow sunlight penetration.
3. Drastically cut back all main branches but one. This is an extreme method of reducing tree height in a single season. Not all trees are capable of resprouting from large lower branches. Apples and pears will usually work, but old stone fruit trees may not effectively resprout because lower buds may not be able to push through the thick bark. Also, there are often no small branches or twigs low in these trees from which to
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produce a new framework. Another concern is that some backyard trees have no main branches below 6 to 8 feet. Such trees are better off pruned conventionally or removed, since the only major cut low in the tree leaves only a stump, which may not regrow.
Main branches are cut with a saw by first creating a deep cut on the underside (to prevent bark splitting) and then removing the limb with a cut on the upper side. If possible, cut above one or more lateral branches – even if they are small branches. Head or thin these branches as needed; they, along with shoots arising from buds on the main branches, will form the framework for the new, small tree. To prevent sunburn, all exposed main branches must be whitewashed.
Because this method removes so much leaf area but maintains a large root system that must continue to receive products of photosynthesis (carbohydrates), it is important to leave one smaller main branch or a large side branch unpruned. This extra branch is then removed the following year, after new branches have formed from the main branch stumps. Follow-up summer and dormant pruning is essential to reform the tree in the desired manner."
written by Chuck Ingels (Farm Advisor) and UC Master Gardener Eleanor Dong
(source: http://ucce.ucdavis.edu/files/filelibrary/2002/3363.pdf)

So, am I to be flattered that God would take the time to prune me to be more fruitful? Right now, from where I sit, tap, tap, tapping away at this keyboard, I am not flattered. I want to have a big ole crying fit, and I want to tell God that it's not fair that I have to lose this group of girls that have meant so much to me.


But, at the end of the day, do I realize that God is asking me to give up stuff that I already have in my hands so that He can put more into my hands???

So, with a heavy heart, I open my hands and watch the beautiful gift that He blessed me with for the last year - the MommaDucks, fly away into the sky. Be blessed, all of us Duckies. Be blessed. May God prove Himself faithful to all of us in overflowing our cups of joy. May He bless our families, our marriages.
May He one day allow us to finally all meet in Heaven and rejoice together with Him and each
other.

Fly in the Lord, girls. I am blessed to have known you. Thanks for giving me a taste of Heaven within our group.

Love,

C.

And So Closes Another Chapter....

Well, the Duckies are no more. We are disbanded.

I have to admit - I'm sad. I'm really sad. This group of 5 women, whom (I believe) God brought together off of an internet bulletin board, whom I've shared so much with - we are done. Our little corner of the internet is gone.
Y'know, it's been a great time. It hasn't been all roses and sunshine - we've had our disagreements and all, but all in all - we laughed together. We prayed together. We emailed like CRAZY all back and forth. At times, I thought my inbox was going to exceed it's limit!
I do understand why one of the girls felt the need to pull back - she has 4 kids under the age of 4. For that alone, I applaud her. And, she's busy with MOPS and MDO's, and her wonderful hubby, and church and all that stuff.

But at the same time, I still have that residual sense of loss. And I know that it was great, but reminding me of how great and good it all was doesn't stop the tears from running down my cheeks.

Adieu, MommaDucks. What a ride. I will never see another little duck piece of jewelry the same again....


Tuesday 23 October 2007

So sad.....

I feel like I've just lost one of my best friends, and I don't know why.

See, I belong to this FANTASTIC group of Christian moms where we all have large families, and it is SO cool how God has all brought us together. We email each other on a daily basis, and we pray for each other, revel in each other's successes, cheer loudly and exuberantly for each other when we bravely attempt something new, we soothe each other's spirit's when we are down, we prop each other up when we are downcast..... It's just an amazing group of women.

Needless to say, with so much awesomeness in one small group, there's bound to be disagreements from time to time. Right? Right.
I thought we were dealing with our diversity very well, but one of our group suddenly just up and announced that she is taking a break from us.
I feel very cast aside.
I feel that she would benefit from discussing her feelings, not by shutting us out and turning her back on us.

I jus feel really sad right now.... Off to go pray about it....

Wednesday 10 October 2007

The Return To Simpler Things...

First up - let me give out a holla, holla!!!! to my Duckie girls. I gave them the link to my blog, so they might be reading it. (I've already read yours, Missy!)
Next up - daymmmmm! How do I go almost a MONTH without posting at all???? Criminy rickets! I gotta stop doing that! How is that helping me to write at all????

Well, here we are... A few days past Thanksgiving: Canadian Edition and I am no longer waking up and not knowing where I am. :cheers erupt from Smalltown Alberta!: Most of the time, I wake up and know where I am, which is a great thing. I am very happy with that.
I'm starting to feel settled in the new house, but cannot yet call it "home" without feeling like I'm somehow betraying the old house. (Which, I know, sounds completely LAME, but hey! They are feelings! And feelings are neither right nor wrong, so stick THAT in your pipe and smoke it! Ha!)
I'm enjoying the extra room, but I know that right now is the sort of "New Home Honeymoon" period where you haven't made the interest payment on your mortgage yet, you haven't gotten any utility bills yet, and you're just bumpin' right on along, tripping merrily on the road to Wal-Mart to go pick up MORE throw rugs for the new house "just coz you can" and everything is hunky dory. Then, BLAM! You get socked in the side of the head with a little ole thing I like to call REALITY. And you can bet that reality can sometimes be a bitch on wheels, can't she????

So, I feel like I'm bracing my self inwardly for the slam of reality and what that means to us, as a family, and me, as the main grocery shopper/procurer of stuff from Wal-Mart/getter of new shoes/ purchaser for all holidays and birthdays......
*sigh* Sometimes I wish life wasn't so MUCH.

But some good stuff has happened too, in the past little bit. I've started to play the piano again, which I NEVER thought I'd do. My sister gave me all the sheet music that we had when we were growing up, and MAN! Did we ever have a lot of sheet music!!!
So, I"ve been dabbling a little bit in some of the old songs I used to play. I was a lot better than I gave myself credit for, way back in the day. (Much to my chagrin now!)
But, I've been plonking away at those keys. Doggedly, one would even say. I think I am going to re-learn Anne's Theme by Hagwood Hardy even if it KILLS me!!! (Everyone may be completely sick of it, but who cares!!! I'm going to learn that!! Again!)
But I've been rediscovering my passion for music, which I haven't really indulged in the past 9 years. It's so nice, so refreshing to sit down at the piano, and to make something beautiful. To make my heart, and my spirit soar when I get a piece right. To indulge in simple things once more. Something as simple as a beautiful line of a sonata. Or a rousing crescendo of a passionate piece. To hear the keyboard weep with gentleness once more.
To get lost in the music once more.

What an absolute gift music is to me. It never was when I was younger - I think I saw it as a form of cruel and unusual medivel torture. One that "I was sure" I'd never use when I grew up - kinda like quadratic equations in high school. (Who the heck actually uses those, anyways??)
But, the older I get, the more I'm finding that I'm enjoying the little things. The cookies. The homemade stew. The card from a friend. The phone call. The beauty of the printed word on a page. The majesty of music, and the life it can bring into my soul. Dreams. Hopes. Faith. God. Love that takes your breath away. Truth. Honesty. Peace.

All "little things", all somewhat simple things. But the most life altering, the most heart changing, the most dynamic things I've found yet.
Like Amy Grant says so well,

"I dream of simple things I can believe in
Like the feeling this day brings,
True love and the miracle of forgiving,
I believe in Simple Things."

Help us all to see the simple things in our lives, and to grant us the wisdom to embrace them and keep them close, rather than push them all away.